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How To Effortlessly Flirt With Women

Posted on April 14, 2022 by Manager


What’s up, everybody? This is Charlie from Charisma on Command, and today I have something a little bit different for you. It’s of a flirting technique that is called “Push-pull.” Now, this is not the only flirting technique. You don’t even have to use it, but I suspect that if you keep your eyes open, you’ll start to see it all the time, and the idea is this: Most men, when they enter in sort of a flirting conversation, have one of two strategies, the first is just lavish compliments on the woman, and the second is to be very teasing and joking and trying to get her to laugh a lot.

Now, the truth is, neither of these is excellent on its own, but when you combine elements of each, when you combine a compliment with a joke that releases the tension from that compliment, you’re left with something very powerful. So, let’s just jump right into it now to see an example with Russell Brand. And so, that is a really, really classic “push-pull,” right? Compliment there; he sort of baits the compliment, gives her the compliment, and then, builds that tension for just a second and then sort of deflates it, going just a bit rude, cracking a joke at himself. Now, a lot of people think the pushes have to be, you know, a real push, like very aggressive.

It sounds more than that. Really, what a push does is it just kind of takes away that tension that is built by the compliment, and allows you to move on. If Russell had just sat there, it might have been a bit awkward, but by doing that, creating the laughter, he allows for a comfortable segue into non-straight up complimentary conversation. So real quick, we can watch it again. See?

She’s a bit like, doesn’t know what to say, and then, he, again, releases the tension with this joke. So, that’s “push-pull 1.” Moving on, now, to a second example of what “push-pull” looks like, you can see it here. There’s the pull, right? And that’s kind of what you can expect is that the pull gets, “Oh, thank you.

” “Oh, that’s sweet.” And when you do the push, it’s that release of tension, the laughter, and what the push does when people laugh–I’ve talked about this in previous videos–when people laugh, it almost opens the floodgates to accept everything that happened before.

So, if you’re in conversation with someone you’re arguing and they can make you laugh, there’s this sense that you have tacitly accepted their point, which is so frustrating, which is why people really try hard not to laugh when they’re arguing. And what he does here is he makes his compliments sync in more effectively by following them up with stuff that is funny–the push that makes her laugh. Switching up gears for a minute, you’ve got Craig Ferguson, here.

Now, he is very, very, very light with the pushes. This is a different angle, and you’ll see, he, oftentimes, talks about how beautiful the women who call him on his show are, and the way that he deals with that is it varies from clip to clip, but you’ll see something pretty particular, here, that we’ll talk about once we’ve gone through it. So the first was the pull, “You’ve already done that,” the spell, right? And she giggled a little bit because it was sweet.

And now he’s starting to move away from her.

And this is all very complimentary under the subtext, but he’s physically moving away from her saying that they can’t be together. Watch, and now she, like playingly, jokingly, obviously. So, that is another clear example of push-pull. The push is way softer there, but again; if you just go with straight up regular compliments, which I, sometimes, see you, guys, do in bars, and let it sit, don’t redirect the conversation. Don’t follow-up with a push.

Don’t take it somewhere else. It can feel kind of heavy, like there’s too much tension in the air. The entire idea of cracking a joke afterwards, or moving away, or using the push-pull together, is that it makes things stay light while still demonstrating your interest. So here’s another one of Craig Ferguson. Again, his pushes are very light.

Often time, what he does is just makes a joke after his compliments, that sort of undermines them, and it’s funny, and again, it gets those floodgates to open, and the compliment hits very hard. And so, what he does is he makes light of that first joke, “So, I’m also this.” It makes her laugh a lot.

How To Effortlessly Flirt With Women

The pull, obviously, the first part, but he does kind of take away the intensity of that initial compliment where some guys, sometimes, will just pile on “Oh, you’re really so beautiful.” I don’t even want to get into this story, but I’ve seen it happen where it gets bad.

And I want to play this back one more time.

This is kind of separate from what we’re talking about, but Craig is very, very deliberate in his delivery, right? He takes his time and you can see her waiting to see what he’s going to say. Right here, she’s like listening very closely for what he say because he preps it as “This may come as a surprise to you.” So, moving along now.

.. See, obvious, compliment, pull…

And, again, so he doesn’t necessarily push but he does kind of deflate that initial compliment by, you know, whatever “I’m a Scotsman. If I can see teeth I think it’s amazing.” Rather than piling on her wonderful, sparkling and shiny, which he could, that is a separate direction. Really, the important point here is that when you compliment a woman, you want to continue to take the conversation in some direction, right? What I see a lot of people do that is not good is they want a girl to like them.

They might walk up.

They might say something nice, and they either get a little bit nervous about saying it, so they sort of just wait there afterwards, or they pile on in a very needy way. As long as you’re leading conversation after that, you’re going in a better direction than just sitting there, waiting for her to respond to your compliment, right? So you can push afterwards, you can take conversation in a new direction. It’s a lot of options there.

That is, really, the underlying key to this and this push-pull is just one aspect of it. So, just to recap, this is just one of many tools that you can use when you’re flirting. You do not have to use push-pull. It’s just one thing that you might want to add. Secondly, I forgot to add this, but you do not have to use a push after every single compliment.

In fact, this is going to be most useful towards the beginning of interaction with women that you have not yet gotten to know.

And the reason is that most men, when they’re going up to them, are just lavishing praise and compliments on them. You, actually, separate yourself by being more fun and funny and challenging and joking after any sort of compliment. But, remember, the compliments are important because they are letting her know that you are interested. So, if you found this helpful, and if you’ve ever found yourself hesitating to walk up to someone that you might be interested.

I’ve created a video that has the three things that I use 95% of the time when starting a conversation with a woman. This is a way to do it without being creepy or weird, and I use them in bars, clubs, when walking on the street. They’re helpful in all sorts of situations where you kind of just freeze because you want to talk to her but you don’t know what to say.

So, if you want to get that video, go ahead and click the link that pops up now. It will take you to a page where you can drop your email, and you’ll get that video immediately.

I hope that you, guys, have liked this. Let me know if this is something that you’re interested in. I can do more of these breakdowns.

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6 Ways to Flirt with Women

Posted on June 27, 2021 by Manager


Mate, Have you ever been talking to a girl, but it seems a little too nice and friendly, and you end up in the friend zone – well my friend it’s time to step up your flirting game so that she sees you as a potential lover instead of just another nice guy, because flirting is one of the most important attraction skills. So watch closely and take some good notes.

This is six ways to flirt with a girl to make her like you. We’ve done all the testing, we know what works now. Most guys think that you have to spend lots of money on the girl. Buy lots of flowers and gifts to spend weeks and weeks courting her to get the girl that you really want, but the reality is that women only care about how you make them feel and one of the best ways to make her feel romantic feelings without spending Lots of time and lots and lots of money on her is through flirting.

The dictionary defines flirting as behaving as, though attracted to or trying to attract someone, but for amusement, rather than with serious intentions, and this is great because flirting is basically just showing your interest in her in a fun covert manner. It’s not telling her how much you like her and how much you’re in love with her or telling her how beautiful she is and showering her with compliments. That’s too direct and that will usually push her away and feel a little creepy. Instead, do it more subtly and more indirectly and playfully, with some of the ways that I’m about to show you now. Without further ado, here’s my countdown to my six favorite ways to flirt with a girl number 6 is teasing, which is poking fun of her, but with positive intention. It’S not meant to make her feel bad.

It’S not meant to be malicious. A lot of guys do this wrong because they see the woman as being higher status and more value than him. He sees himself down here, so he wants to make fun of her, tease her and neg her and make her feel bad and bring her down. Basically show her I’m cooler than you you’re down here, but Neath me. Never do that hey!

It doesn’t work that well, a high-value woman who is secure in herself is gon na see right past that and she’s just gon na dismiss you move on to somebody else. Instead, be an awesome guy, be up here, be a 10, see yourself as a 10 and bring people up to your level, bring people up to your status instead of trying to put them down, and the key is that it’s in the holman. It’S not some pre-planned line that you intend to say it’s just something: she does you make fun of her mannerisms or maybe she’s walking, and she stumbles and you don’t tell her she’s such a dork, and you can’t take her anywhere and you’re embarrassed by her in That type of negative tonality, it’s a playful tonality, you tease her and say: oh, I can’t take you anywhere or oh you’re such a klutz. The point is that it’s all about the vibe that you’re having fun and just enjoying the experience, it’s how you would treat your friends right, your close friends, you tease each other about certain things, which creates a sense of rapport when you do it to a woman That you meet for the first time, because we usually only tease people that we feel very comfortable with. So if you tease her in the right way, she will feel that rapport and feel closeness to you.

It’S like you’re part of her inner circle. So it’s more about the nonverbal than the actual specific words you say. For example, you can tease her about almost anything just the way she says something. Maybe she says like a lot and you accuse her of being a valley girl. Again, it shouldn’t be like oh you’re, a valley girl.

I could never date you. It should be like, oh, my god, you’re such a valley girl. Do you listen to yourself? Oh my god. This is never gon na work out.

I’M nervous about this because I’m no. I know I can’t do this. Oh okay, you can and here’s a few other examples see. This is why we can’t have nice things. Are you just trying to get in my pants you’re, so bad versus?

Are you just trying to get in my pants number? Five? Is role reversal, which is great because it flips the script the traditional dating frame is courting the man is chasing the woman, so instead you just flip that around and accuse her of trying to get into your pants and accuse her of trying to seduce you. You might say: stop seducing me with your eyes, young lady. I see what you’re doing so bad or you might misinterpret something she says.

Maybe she says she’s gon na go home and go to bed and you turn that into invitation. I think I’m gon na go to bed. I can’t go to bed with you that easily i mean you need to buy me a drink first or something you can also accuse her for you escalating, so blame her for being the one that’s causing you to make. The moves on her, so you could say something like if you look at me again like that, i’m gon na be forced to kiss you remember it’s all in the delivery in the tonality saying. If you look at me again like that, i’m gon na be forced to kiss you stop stop.

Looking at me like that is not flirting. Number four is role playing this one is awesome because it creates this context in this frame of a fantasy world, which means you can flirt with her. You can tell her how much you are in love with her, even but it’s just a joke. It’S not real because it’s a role play for example, if you roleplay that you’re getting married or that you’re role-playing that your boyfriend and girlfriend or it’s like one of those epic romances where you’re so in love, then she could go to the bathroom. And you could say darling, don’t leave me you’re gon na be gone for so long.

What am I gon na do? I know that sounds a little cheesy, but it’s fun. It’S playful. It’S so different than what other guys would do in the bar, whether just let her so how’s your night going. You come here often, what do you do for work and in a marriage role play which is one of my favorites?

You can get away with talking about so much talk about your future relationships where you would travel together, painting these pictures in her mind of you and her together. You know what I like you we’re so gon na get married. Instead of having a long engagement, we should just find my friend actually it’s right over. There he’s an ordained minister come on and you can also talk about very risque things because you’re a married couple now in fact, a few times I’ve taken my dates into adult bookstores after we’ve done this marriage roleplay and I’m just like come on honey. We need to spice up our romance, and I start whipping her with some of the whips and pick out some toys for her and it’s really fun and really ramps things up to the next level.

Another roleplay I like is the mini relationship where you just have like a five minute rule a ship with a girl as boyfriend and girlfriend. I have a fear of commitment, so we can just do this for five minutes. You could be my girl five minutes. That’S all I can commit to it, creates that sense of closeness that you’re in a relationship right away, but it takes away the pressure because you’re gon na break up in five minutes. In fact, I use this as an opener going up to girls and saying hey: can I be your boyfriend or will you be my girlfriend and if you want to know how well it worked, it actually quite surprised me check out the video the links to the Videos I’ll put them down in the description by the way.

Remember if you haven’t downloaded my free conversation, cheat sheet, that’s packed with other flirty examples. Make sure to download that right now, there’s a link down in the description for that as well. Next is touching, which is a great way to flirt as long as you don’t overdo it. If you’re touching her too much too soon, then it’s no longer covert, it’s very obvious. What you’re doing and to everybody around you.

They can tell you really liked this girl and it can definitely creep her out, so you must make sure to balance your interest, and this actually applies to every one of these concepts that you balance the showing interest by taking it away. You’Re saying hey, I like you, but I’m not sure about you or with touching it’s. Oh you touch, but then you take it away. You should never be like I like you, I, like you, I, like you. I, like you, touch, touch touch.

You need to do a little bit and then take it away. Two steps forward, one step back and touching works so well, because it releases oxytocin, which is a feel-good hormone that is also released during orgasm. But the key is that the touching is in context. If you’re completely touching her out of nowhere – and it’s not relevant to the situation, then it’s going to seem creepy. So here’s a few ways to touch her where it is in context.

First, there’s greeting touch where you shake her hands, but to make it flirtatious shake her hand and hold it longer than normal, while looking into her eyes or give her a kiss on the then there’s also games like thumb, wrestling or slap hands, there’s also observational touch Where you noticed something about her like she’s wearing a cool necklace or she has a ring on her finger or a watch also leaving her from one place to another place, you can go arm in arm or hand in hand and there’s also conversational touching to emphasize A point when you want to make something you’re talking about seem more dramatic. You can also do correcting touch which I love to do, which is when you fix her outfit or you take something out of her hair or you can even fix her posture and get her to stand up straight. Bad posture is a huge pet peeve of mine. Number two: I call the look of desire, which is using your eyes to flirt with her, which can be really covert and have a huge impact. As they say, the eyes are the window to the soul and they can really create a lot of tension and on the flip side, you can actually make the interaction very platonic by breaking the eye contact by looking down, which is very submissive and shy and can Make her feel like you’re a weak man?

If you want her to feel like you’re a strong, powerful alpha male then hold the eye contact longer than normal, but don’t just look at her bug-eyed like this or like this. That’S not flirtatious. You need to look at her with desire. You need to appreciate her beauty and allow yourself to feel that feminine energy we’ll call it that intoxicating feeling that a beautiful woman gives you, when you’re in her presence and just soften your gaze. Just allow yourself to appreciate that beauty and let that appreciation for her attraction come through your eyes, not in a creepy way where you’re like.

Oh, my god, damn look at you not like that, but where you’re just looking at her like you know, you could give her the utmost sexual satisfaction, you could give her the utmost pleasure in bed if she was so lucky when you give her that look of Desire she will melt in front of you and almost every guy on her bootcamps. It needs help with their eye contact initially to really ramp up that sexual tension practice not blinking. I’M doing it right now. I’M gon na seduce you with my eyes, but seriously. I’Ve noticed this in a lot of Hollywood movies, where the interaction is very intense and seductive that there’s not a lot of blinking because believe it or not bowling’king releases.

The tension also stand a little closer than normal. That will increase that flirty vibe and that sexual tension and also practice your smirk when you’re, looking at her with desire and you’re appreciating her attractive beauty, just have a little smirk on your face, not an ear-to-ear grin because that releases the tension, and that just shows That you’re nervous, but instead just appreciate the beauty. I’Ve seen guys on our workshops as well, when they first approached a woman. It’S so serious and they’re looking at her like this, and they have good eye contact but there’s to have a stone-cold face and they’re expressionless. When you do that, she’s gon na think you’re a serial killer, because she can’t read you.

She needs to be able to read that read your intention and feel that you’re not a threat and that this is a positive flirtatious vibe, so that smooth, subtle smile or smirk will really help with that and number one which I considered. The foundation of flirting is push-pull, which is showing her interest either direct verbally or through your eye, contact or non-verbally through touching and then taking it away. It’S maintaining that balance of I like you, but I’m not sure about you yet showing desire yet being the challenge, because if you show too much interest too soon, she feels like. Why does this guy? Like me, so much, he must be desperate.

He must not have other women in his life, but if you’re too much of a challenge – and you push her away too much and you’re kind of it – then she can also lose interest because she’s like why bother this guy doesn’t even like me, the dance of Dating is all about showing interest and then taking it away. Remember two steps forward, one step back, for example, if it’s a really girl, you could say you know you’re really cute, but I think you’re just too short for me and you can keep this push-pull dynamic. Going throughout the interaction, even when you’re physically escalating, even when you’re kissing her, you can pull away. Okay, that’s all you get no more! It’S like you’re, giving her a little taste right when you show interest, especially when you’re, kissing or touching, it feels good.

But then, when you take it away, she wants more. If you keep going further further further escalate, escalate, escalate interest interest, interest, she’s going to pull back when you chase somebody they run away. But if you pull back she’s gon na start chasing you, this works really. Well, when you’re escalating, because every time you make a move on her you’re showing interest, so you can balance it out by taking a step back and putting a restriction on it. I call it restricted requests, for example, when you’re getting her phone number.

Do you text? Okay, you’re, not crazy, are you or when you invite her back to your place, which can seem like a big step in the relationship. She knows. What’s going to happen to balance that out, so it doesn’t feel like such a big deal. You just put a restriction on it: okay, we can go back to my place, but we have to be good.

You have to keep your hands above my waist, of course, all right, good, let’s go and then she’s actually more likely to comply and say: okay, we can go back to your place because you put that restriction on it. So we got teasing, role reversal, role play touching the look of desire and push-pull next time you go out or next time, you’re on a date use some of these techniques. But remember it’s all about how you do it your delivery and how you feel internally is everything and is going to make it either a flirty romantic and sensual interaction versus platonic, weird or creepy.

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How To Overcome Approach Anxiety (12 Tips That Work)

Posted on June 20, 2021 by Manager


How often have you been in situations where you saw someone you wanted to talk to but you didn’t? And then, you’re mad at yourself for not taking action. It’s frustrating isn’t it? You tell yourself that you’re going to do something about it next time  but then you still don’t so you feel even worst. Now you’re stuck in this vicious circle.

That’s why in this post, I want to give you  my best tips if you want to learn how to overcome approach anxiety. This is the exact same process that I’ve used when I was figuring how  to be more outgoing and improve my social skills. 

People who have crippling approach anxiety feel  very nervous before walking up to someone they’ve never met before.

They have rapid heart rate, clammy hands and thought paralysis. If you’ve never learned how to interact with people, you lack self-confidence and  you’re afraid of rejection, then you’ll most likely experience extreme approach anxiety. That being said, here are 12 actionable tips that you can implement right away. Alright, let’s get into it.

Tip #1 Raise your self-esteem

From my experience, most people who suffer from approach anxiety don’t think they’re good enough.

They have low self-worth and tend to put other people on a pedestal. They also have a bad habit of beating themselves up mentally  by focusing on their flaws and past failures.

If you want to know how to overcome approach anxiety,  you need to figure out how to like yourself first. The fastest way that I know to raise your self-esteem  is by focusing on your positive traits. To help you get started, I want you to grab a  sheet of paper and start making a list of what you appreciate about yourself.

In fact, this is one of the best confidence building exercises that you can ever do. You can start small by thinking about the easiest thing you can feel good about  and then progressing from there. If you want to know how to get out of a funk, I recommend you do this as much as you can. Overtime, you’ll notice a shift in how you feel about yourself in a more positive way. When you believe that you are someone worth getting to know,  you’ll be a lot more inclined to put yourself out there.

Tip #2 Prevent analysis paralysis

As a social skills coach, I noticed that most people who struggle socially  lack awareness and experience when it comes to meeting people. They just don’t know any better. If you don’t know how to be more social, it’s definitely a good idea to learn about this topic. Just don’t make the mistake of reading too much and not taking action. I’ve seen this a lot with our clients before they joined our social skills coaching program.

They would literally spend hours reading books,  listening to podcasts and watching videos on how to overcome approach anxiety.

But then when it’s time to take action,  they can’t because information overload can cause analysis paralysis. If you want to learn how to overcome approach anxiety, what you’ll want to do  is to learn the right things at the right time in the right order. For example, if you noticed that you struggle with starting conversations with strangers,  keep working on that and nothing else. Don’t worry about learning how to be witty for now.

Only consume enough information for what you need to act on and that’s it. Otherwise, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed and you end up not doing anything at all.

Tip #3 Look more approachable

If you’re wondering how to overcome approach anxiety,  you have to pay attention to how you’re presenting yourself.

Seriously though. Would you want to talk to someone with their arms crossed and has a frown on their face?

I didn’t think so. Remember, it’s not just what you say but how you say it matters too. If you want your interactions to start off on the right food,  you also have to know how to be more likeable. To help you get started, make sure you improve your style and you also groom yourself well.

Have an open body language by standing up straight and making eye contact.

Have your feet shoulder with apart, smile and keep your arms to your side. When you do these things, you’ll come across approachable. And that will make whoever you talk to feel comfortable and at ease.

Tip #4 Go to the right venues

Where you go to meet people makes a huge difference. If you want to learn how to overcome approach anxiety, be intentional about how you go about it.

Make sure you go to places  that have the kind of people you want to meet and that you enjoy as well. If you don’t want to go to bars and clubs to socialize, you don’t have to.

You just have to be more thoughtful about where you spend your time meeting people. My advice for you is to add a social component to your passions, hobbies, and interests. For example, if you like dancing, take salsa lessons.

If you want to meet more artistic individuals, sign up for a painting class. If you want to connect with active people, join a fitness bootcamp. Do you see how that works? Remember, you can’t be good at everything. So make sure you set yourself up to succeed socially by leveraging your strengths.

Tip #5 Set yourself up to win

Imagine you’re wanting to learn how to swim. Would you rather begin at the shallow end first and practice your strokes  or jump in the deep end and figure it out from there? Obviously, you’d want to start small, get comfortable  and then eventually make things more challenging for you, right? The same thing goes if you’re wondering how to overcome approach anxiety. This is especially true if you’re socially inept and inexperienced.

Unfortunately, common sense isn’t always common practice. In fact, I’ve worked with clients in the past from our social skills  coaching program who did the exact opposite.

They got some bad advice online, tried it out and got burnt over and over again. It’s no wonder they feel traumatized putting themselves  and they just don’t want to go out anymore. To prevent that from happening to you, you’ll want to gather as much  positive reference experience as you can when you’re just starting out.

That way, you can prove to yourself that nothing really bad ever happens. To help you get started, let me walk you through a few approach  anxiety exercises that will help you out.

For example, you can start just by asking strangers for time or direction. And then, you can try making situational comments at coffee shops or the grocery store. Eventually, you can walk up to someone you’re into and tell them you find them attractive.

Do you see how that works? Most people who struggle socially tend to overcomplicate things that they never take action. Avoid doing that at all costs. Break things down into the smallest task that you feel comfortable doing and get started there.

Tip #6 Assess your situation objectively

Most people who suffer from approach anxiety tend to imagine how bad things will go.

They exaggerate what failure looks like in their heads that  it actually cripples them from even trying. I remember having a client before who actually believed that people were going to spit at him  if he tried to start a conversation with them. Personally, I’ve met thousands of people in the past and I can honestly say that  nothing like that has ever happened to me before. For example, let’s say you want to start a  conversation with someone you want to meet in a coffee shop.

Think of the absolute worst thing that can happen. In this case, the person you want to talk to might ignore you and  you’ll probably have an awkward silence for a bit. And if you think about it, it’s not all that bad, right? Also, if you really feel uncomfortable, you can just leave and go somewhere else. Again, in order to figure out how to overcome approach anxiety,  assess your situation objectively more often.

Tip #7 Stop caring what people think

The fear of judgment holds most people back from putting themselves out there. They’re so worried about looking weird for wanting to start a conversation  with someone they want to talk to. But the reality is, some people are going to assume those things about you. That’s just how it is. But does it really matter? If you think about it, most people are so concerned about themselves anyway.

They don’t have time to worry about you.

Even if you make a mistake or do something silly,  most of them would’ve forgotten about you by the time they get home. The way I see it, unless someone pays your rent,  buys your groceries, and puts gas in your car, what they think shouldn’t matter to you. At the end of the day, it’s your life and you have to take responsibility for yourself.

Tip #8 Only focus on what you can do

If you want to know how to overcome approach anxiety,  you have to identify what’s within your control and what’s not.

In this case, you’re in charge of walking up to anyone you want to meet  but how they respond isn’t up to you. If you want to succeed socially, focus on the process, and not the outcome. When I made a commitment to learning how to overcome approach anxiety,  I just set a goal to start a conversation with just one stranger a day. I didn’t care whether they liked me or not.

What really mattered was that I made a move and that’s what I congratulated myself on.

As a matter of fact, that’s how I met every single girl I dated and most of my closest friends. I wasn’t trying to make anything happen and I was just focused on being social. Remember, the more you put yourself out there, the more socially confident you’ll become.

Tip #9 Find an accountability partner

When I was learning how to overcome approach anxiety, I enlisted the help of a friend. I told him that if I didn’t talk to at least one person a day, I would give him $100. That strategy worked really well for me  because I didn’t want to look bad in front of him and I didn’t want to lose my money as well. As a result, I did anything and everything that I could to interact with someone new consistently. And it worked. These days, I just walk up to anybody that I want to talk to because I’ve done it so many times.

My advice is for you to find a friend that you trust and respect who would  help you stay accountable to your social goals.

Tip #10 Don’t take rejection personally

Rejection hurts because it triggers the same part of our brain when we experience physical pain. That’s why most of us try to avoid it at all costs. But if you want to learn how to overcome approach anxiety,  you have to get comfortable with rejection. At the end of the day, meeting people is still a numbers game. The way I see it, you just can’t take rejection personally.

The person who turned you down barely knows who you are. You’re a total stranger to them. Remember, they’re rejecting your approach, not you as a person. Also, you just have no idea what’s going on in people’s lives. Not many people talk about this but good timing is a big component of succeeding socially.

Like I said earlier, just focus on what you can control and that’s it. The better you get at handling rejection, the more you’ll succeed socially.

Tip #11 Keep showing up

Small actions performed repeatedly produce massive results. By talking and connecting with new people consistently, you’ll learn how to overcome  approach anxiety and also figure out how to stop being socially inept much faster. The opposite is also true.

If you don’t make time to go out and socialize, it’s easy to fall back into your old habits. It’s no different than going to the gym. If you don’t work out, your muscles will eventually atrophy. In this case, the more experience you acquire interacting with others,  the more confident you’ll feel in any social setting.

Eventually, connecting with people will become a  habit and you’ll open up a wider range of opportunities in every area of your life.

Tip #12 Track your progress

As the saying goes, insanity is doing the same thing over and over again  expecting a different result. That being said, make sure you take the time to evaluate your social progress on a regular basis. Ask yourself what you’re doing well and what you need to work on. But if you want to know how to overcome approach anxiety much faster,  consider working with a social skills coach. You’ll get a proven plan to follow and have someone give  you the feedback and accountability that you need.

Get this part of your life handled so that you never have to worry about it ever again.

Article source: How To Overcome Approach Anxiety (12 Tips That Work) – YouTube

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